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Reading Summary
TEST YOUR CHILD, by : Dr. Miriam
Stoppard
THE
PARENT AS TEACHER
·
SKILLS THAT ENCOURAGE
LEARNING
1.
Set approoriate
goals
NEVER PURSUE PERFECTION as this will lead
to frustration both to your child and to you. Never fall into the trap of expecting
too much too soon, but BE AWARE of the SMALL ACCOMPLISHMENTS and SUCCESSES that
your child achieves EVERY DAY.
2.
Always join in
Your child learns through EXAMPLE and
IMITATION until she/he is over eight years old. One of the best ways to show
her/him a good example is to get up and do something in front of her/him, or
with her/him *sooo parents, please DO THINGS yaaa.
Example : Instead of telling her to “go and
tidy up your toys”, you need to take
your knees and make a game of doing it together, saying “it is time to put your
toys away”.
DO NOT RELY ON JUST GIVING YOUR CHILD
ORDERS OR DIRECTIONS *noted.
3.
Repeat, repeat,
repeat
With all children, but especially young
children, it is frustrating but necessary to tell them over and over again to
do the same thing -à
for months and months and months until your child’s body gets the message as
well as her/his mind *fiyuuuuh
4.
Give positive
examples
It is not until school age that a child is
ready to respond to instruction expressed
only through words unaccompanied by actions. Instead of saying, “Do not
slam the door when you come in!”, go to the door when you hear your child,
welcome him/her there and then say “We close the door quietly” while you move
his/her hand very gently through the motion of closing the door.
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